SUNDAY, DECEMBER 22, 7 P.M., in the cathedral nave

Each year Saint Mark's offers a service for those for whom the holiday season brings a mix of emotions, and for anyone for whom grief is a companion in life. The service (formerly known as "Blue Christmas") is held near the winter solstice, marking time with intention in the candlelit cathedral while holding space for those present to pray, remember loved ones, and (if desired) have anointing by the priests before we share Holy Communion.

Although the Christmas season is claimed by our culture as festive and happy, for many people it is a painful time of year. Memories of loved ones who have passed away or other losses can stir up grief and exacerbate loneliness. For those who are grappling with the loss of health or happier times, the expectation to be joyful can be difficult.

And for others, preparation for Christmas stirs up a general sadness that is hard to pin down. This year in particular, as the nation looks forward to an uncertain and frightening future, these emotions may be even more intense

This service is offered in the nave, but is not livestreamed. Dean Steve Thomason will preside, Canon Rich Weyls will offer a brief reflection, and they, along with Canon Emily Griffin will be on hand to offering anointing and prayers individually for any who would like that. All are welcome at this service, wherever you are on your spiritual journey or whatever concerns you bring.