2025 Gratitude Conversations

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The leaders of the Saint Mark’s Episcopal Cathedral Stewardship Ministry will present a five-week series of reflections, prayers, mediations, and short stories to prepare the way for our 2025 Stewardship Campaign. We welcome your thoughts and reflections in response, either using the comment box at the bottom of this page, or via email: stewardship@saintmarks.org.
If you have any questions or reactions, please write Junior Warden for Stewardship Pete Snyder at: petersnyder58@gmail.com

WEEK 5

by Peter Snyder

Through advertisements and social media I am constantly bombarded with images of things I ‘need’ to make me more successful, thinner, more stylish, or what have you. The underlying message in all of this is that I should focus on me, and what will make me happy. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be happy, but experience tells me that it is not things that make me happy—it is living a life that is directed towards something greater than myself.

At St. Mark’s, I hear a different message: “strive first for the kingdom of God…and all these things will be given to you as well” (Matt 6:33). To me this says that I will find more satisfaction in those things I have, and less dissatisfaction from those I don’t have, when I am oriented towards God.

Our generous God welcomes all into the kingdom and invites us to live into that same generosity. Mark Reike, our consultant for the Living Stones II capital campaign, was fond of saying that the gift one should give is the gift that will bring the most joy. This has stuck with me because I have found there really is more joy in generous giving than in a life filled with ‘stuff.’ I am so thankful to be part of a community that strives to embody this joyful generosity!

WEEK 4

by Alexandra Thompson

I brought the dried hulls of a radish plant gone to seed to my gardening group last night. The brittle hulls contain the seeds for a next round of radishes to grow, not just in my garden, but in those of my neighbors. It brought me joy to think of how generous nature. We take something tiny and make food out of it. If we fail at making food, the plant gives us another chance. In my life Saint Mark’s is not much different. The church has an institution and the people inside have been so warm and generous to me and my family over the past 20 years. My small contribution of time, talent and treasure contributes to a vibrant cathedral community. I am glad to be part of Saint Mark's Cathedral and gladly choose generosity when it comes time to make a financial commitment this Fall.

 

WEEK 3

by Greg Simon

In our consumer culture, we’re prompted to post online reviews of nearly everything we purchase. But we’re not usually prompted to post reviews when we give rather than buy. So I’ll take this opportunity to post my online review of our household’s annual giving to Saint Mark’s Cathedral:

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Review title: Choose generosity!

This is the deal of a lifetime! Nothing I’ve purchased before has given me this kind of joy and satisfaction. The durability and reliability just can’t be beat; it’s even more satisfying after many years as it was on the first day. Choose generosity – and you’ll just keep wanting more of it!

 

WEEK 2

by Deborah Person

I was at a game this weekend, and in front of me was a very young girl, so completely generous with her smiles, laughter, and attention to everyone around her. It was contagious. Everyone around her received her gifts of joy and generosity of spirit and spread it to each other. I went home grateful for that reminder of how quickly generosity can spread.

I wish I always expressed generosity as freely and easily as my new young friend did this weekend at the game. But in these challenging times, I can too easily forget that generosity is always a choice. When I choose generosity, I not only shift my experience, but those around me as well – it’s a game changer (pun intended!).

I am grateful for this community for so many reasons, especially for the opportunities we have to practice choosing generosity, supporting each other and serving together.

 

WEEK 1—Choosing Generosity

by Greg Hamm

Each year at around this time, we hear about stewardship, and we are encouraged to make a pledge to Saint Mark’s Cathedral. It is easy to think about this in very mundane terms: “Well, the church is a valuable presence in our lives and our community, and it needs money to operate, so maybe I’ll contribute.” This is certainly not wrong—the church is utterly dependent upon generosity to keep functioning. Annual pledges are especially important because they allow the cathedral to budget and plan for the coming year.

And it is certainly true that the presence of Saint Mark's Cathedral is vitally important, especially in these challenging times. The cathedral provides an island of coherence in our lives that helps keep us from giving in to despair or apathy. It helps people in need, advocates for justice, and keeps alive the story of another, more caring way in our society.

But pledging, at whatever level, is valuable in a different, and more personal way. This is where choosing—the first word in our stewardship theme, Choosing Generosity—comes in.

When I make a pledge, I am choosing to be generous, not once, but repeatedly over a whole year. And making this choice changes me. Generosity becomes a practice—a practice of gratitude, and of belonging. I start paying attention to more of the things happening at Saint Mark’s. I start chatting with “strangers” after worship (who aren’t really strangers anymore). At Communion, I look the chalice bearer in the eye, and we smile.

Everyone is welcome at Saint Mark’s; I have always felt that. When I choose generosity, I let that welcome all the way in. I belong here; I am home.

Generosity Meditations for Living Stones II

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Like living stones, let yourselves be built into a spiritual house, to be a holy priesthood, to offer spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ. —1 PETER 2:5

For many of us, the last few months have been full of uncertainty, apprehension, and even fear. In times such as these we may feel the instinct to “circle the wagons” and keep things close. It may seem like a time when generosity is a luxury we can’t afford. But generosity can be exactly the antidote we need against fear—an act of faith in God’s goodness that resets our orientation to the world.

As part of the Living Stones II: Building a Sound Future capital campaign, we asked members of the St. Mark’s community to respond to the following query: What does generosity mean to you, especially now? As you reflect on how God might be calling you to be a part of this important work in the life of the Cathedral, we hope these meditations will be food for thought and prayer.

Elizabeth Antley

Generosity nourishes deeper connection to love of ourselves, each other, and the Divine. Whether by sharing our time, our talents, our connections, our wisdom, our creativity, our money, or infinitely otherwise, our generosity affirms our sacred interconnectedness; a way to proclaim, “We love Us!”

Eliza Davidson

To me generosity means to give yourself the gift of giving. I find that in giving I receive joy from the connection made, the time shared, the need met, the fueling of love in our midst. During these dark times, contributing to what is enduring and good helps alleviate the rage and despair that threaten to consume me. We can’t do it all but we must do what we can, accepting it as sufficient for today. There will be many tomorrows and many ways to give ahead. Avoid battles of the good, which only dispirit us. Sometimes we make a lasting impact, sometimes fleeting but all kindle human kindness in our needy world.

Greg Simon

“My kingdom is not of this world.” John 18:36
When facing betrayal and corrupt power, Jesus responded in the most otherworldly way—with radical generosity. In our worldly kingdom, those who give generously or sacrificially might be called “suckers” or “losers”. But we know there is a different kingdom, ruled by love and generosity rather than violence or domination. I pray to see the eternal kingdom more clearly and to help reveal it in my actions.

“I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” John 14:27
Even in normal times, I tend to have a hard time letting go of money. I tend to give as the world usually gives—with a heart that is troubled and afraid. And these are not normal times. Many of us are filled with uncertainty about our financial stability, our freedom to speak freely, or even our personal safety. Gratitude and generosity may not be my “natural” reaction to fearful times. So I will pray for that spirit of gratitude and generosity.

“In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart, I have overcome the world.” John 16:33
Tribulation seems to be on the rise. And we may feel fearful, angry, exhausted, or all of the above. Our power to overcome fear and threat does not come from this world. Our faith calls us to resist fear and threat with their perfect opposites: radical hospitality and spirit-filled generosity. I pray for that spirit of welcome and generosity to overcome this world’s tribulation.

John Hoerster

My grandkids like to say “you let them do it, why not me, it’s not fair.” And adults often seek a quid pro quo, a favor for a favor, an eye for an eye. I find solace at Saint Mark’s because the relationships are not transactional. Members are open, supportive, and generous, acting from a spirit of abundance. During the last couple of years, I’ve been especially grateful that members of the Saint Mark’s community have been prayerful, kind, and supportive as our family has dealt with a health situation. This is just a small example of the multitude of ways in which the Saint Mark’s community generously steps up without expecting anything in return. No quid pro quo, just love.

Michael Kleinschmidt

When I think about what generosity means to me, two of my favorite quotes came to mind:

“It is not joy that makes us grateful, it is gratitude that makes us joyful.” (Brother David Stendl-Rast)

“The greatest danger is not that we aim too high and miss the mark, but that we aim too low and reach it.” (Said to be Michelangelo’s life motto)

These quotes inspire me every time I think about them. One could modify the first quote to say: It is not generosity that makes us grateful, it is gratitude that makes us generous. The second quote reminds me not to give until it hurts, but to give until it feels good. It feels good to stretch. Being content with achieving an easy goal is ultimately very unsatisfying. An inner ache remains.

James Davidson

When I think of what generosity means to me—especially now—I am reminded that...

When the prevailing wisdom is: ‘Enough with compassion and empathy….That costs too much….We’re cutting back…’
Love resists. Because love is generous.

When the prevailing wisdom is: ‘History or truth should never make us feel uncomfortable….We take a narrow view on the wider world….Our country first.’
Love resists. Because love is generous.

When the prevailing wisdom is: ‘There isn’t room for you here….You don’t belong….There’s not enough to go around…’
Love resists. Because love is generous. And generosity expresses the heart of God. It’s love in action. Changes us, changes the world.

That’s why we are here. That’s what we are doing. Really. Gospel truth.

Marv Waschke

We say over and over again that God is love, to the point that in moments of distraction or fatigue, we hear the words without the meaning. Then something snaps us back to the meaning of those three short words, that God is the kindness and compassion we offer to others, the kindness and compassion God offers to us, and creation is the mutual exchange of love. That something is generosity. When we give to others, we are blessed with recognition of God's love for us and all creation.

Peter Snyder

The word ‘generous’ comes from the Latin genere, which means to create, cause to exist, bring to life, and from which we get the English word ‘generate.’ In its root meaning, then, generosity is creative and life giving. Indeed, God’s initial act of creation is the ultimate act of generosity, in which the triune God—who lacked nothing—graciously chose to share the divine life with an ‘other.’ When we are generous, we participate with God in this life-giving work.

Ep 19. — The Rev. Canon Cristi Chapman: A Dream Come True

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The Rev. Canon Cristi Chapman: A Dream Come True (recorded September 24, 2019)

The Rev. Canon Cristi Chapman talks about how Seattle was always on her radar, what it means to be the Canon for Spiritual Growth and Stewardship, and the experience of preaching on her very first Sunday at Saint Mark’s.